爱情限时恋未尽

 I started working when I was 11.By 25,I could feel the end of my career coming.I tought"what happens now?"what will be my life".I was terrified.And so I made an error of youth.Some of the girls were lucky.They had fallen in love,but not me.Not once.Even though I had been all over the world and I had meet everyone.That spring,I was introduced to Valery.He was then just as he is now.Solid,substantial.And good."The salt of Earth"As American like to say.I felt a great affection for him.A great respect.That is a kind of love.I thought it was the only kind I would ever now.I didn't believe enough.I didn't believe in love.

8 years later,I discovered that I should have.It has stunned me this now happiness,which come out of nowhere.This secret door has opened in me.I have never felt so alive as when I am in your arms.It is temping ,so temping to forget about everything.And just accept this gift.

But I cannot.And not because I didn't believe that you could be marvelous stepfather to Marc and Elodie.And wouderful father to the children we might have had together.Not because of lifestyle or the difference in our ages or the opinion of others.When Valery and I married,we wrote our own vows"I will hold your heart more tenderly than my own"He has always kept his promise and I feel I must keep mine.

But it's more than a matter of honor.One day,Brian,when you have children,you will understand that to leave them is to leave yourself .And to injure them,unthinkable.I told you,I'm an old-fashioned girl.Please do not try to contact me.It will not change evything.I am so sad to say goodbye.To be parted.I can't believe it ,really.

We had so many adventures still ahead of us.Maybe if we had had more time,I would have found something about you I didn't like,really couldn't stand,which would be very useful right now.But I doubt it.They say that no love is perfect.But them,they never met you. I started working when I was 11.By 25,I could feel the end of my career coming.I tought"what happens now?"what will be my life".I was terrified.And so I made an error of youth.Some of the girls were lucky.They had fallen in love,but not me.Not once.Even though I had been all over the world and I had meet everyone.That spring,I was introduced to Valery.He was then just as he is now.Solid,substantial.And good."The salt of Earth"As American like to say.I felt a great affection for him.A great respect.That is a kind of love.I thought it was the only kind I would ever now.I didn't believe enough.I didn't believe in love.

                                                                                                                  ————Arielle

   

“就像回忆并不是要抓着不放，也不是要永远记着”，因为生活太奇妙了会在某个时刻让你碰到“回忆”，而相比一直“抓着不放”我更喜欢在将来的生活中和你“轻轻的一瞥和微笑”，也谢谢你还爱着我，谢谢你还带着这枚戒指，谢谢你脱下你的手套让我看到，谢谢你让我成长，让我知道，“有些人不属于你，但遇见了也好。”

电影有97分钟，前30分钟的每一帧配乐都在我心头跳动，甜蜜的让我都快忘了这是一次出轨，可是这并不算什么，因为重点并不是说这段婚外情有多文艺，重点是人和人之间的感情是这样，人和人地域不同文化不同也是这样，有些事情我不能理解无法理解却就是发生在我的身上，而生活也是这样过着，不好过的时候我每天收到的信件都是退稿信。

可是我碰见你了。

其实我有些诧异，电影中有些情节很电影，而有些情节却很生活，比如最后一幕女主脱下自己的手套。我能够感受到如果是我脱下手套的感受，也能感受到当我看见你脱下你的手套露出戒指的感受。

很喜安东的声音，从《心碎往事》到《爱疯了(like crazy)》到《无人引航》再到现在的《5 to 7》，都很棒，我也很喜欢女2简，她应该也包含电影里的两个笑点了吧。
最后，配乐我给五星，让我想到了《One day》。
配乐：http://music.163.com/#/program?id=11676017

……拿一顿饭打比喻的话，这把我吃得有点噎着了。

角度蛮好的，题材蛮好的，死撑了不到一小时，关了……大部分情节像看拍人类的《动物世界》，但拍得并不太好的那种。

男主在星际迷航里不是很可爱吗！！！这里为啥这么挫，这么挫啊！！！

阿门啊，我努力想代入男主，失败了。然后，不但代入不了男主，因为他太挫，看女主我也几分钟跳一次戏了啊。情欲戏要死人，要死人……像GAY和拉拉在搞……在搞……她爱这矬子啥？给了一大堆理由，不信，我不信啊！从丈夫的角度看呢，这俩就是一对儿挫，一对儿傻逼啊，这么热情洋溢地宽容一对儿挫，我控制不住地觉得，其实确实你跟你老婆脑子都有问题啊！！！

男女主角根本不来电，不来电……

美感太少了，太少了……

对阶层的意淫感太强了，实在太强了……想让普通观众带入，也不是这么弄的……得意忘形的气息阵阵泛上来……这么纤细敏感的题材，怎么能有屌丝气息呢……哎。 毁了啊，纤细就禁不住胡乱折腾啊，看看《似雨天似晴天》，人家更敏感更容易出问题，但人家实现得就是ok啊。

整个，特别像冰箱里放久了的好火腿和好蛋糕互相窜了味儿。炖汤也不行，烧冬瓜也不行；蛋糕的奶油一股哈喇气息。

知道它底子再好，我也还是甭吃了。

  电影节奏很好，音乐真的也是非常棒，男女主虽然都不是认识，但是真的给人感觉很舒服，很浪漫，整部片子虽然是婚外情，却给人温馨，婚外情处理得那么融洽，真是不可思议。但始终文化环境不同，打从心里不愿意认同这部电影男女主角 男主角父母（特别是父亲很有范啊），女主角老公也是难得的不令人讨厌 甚至JANE-女主角老公的情妇 ，也让人很喜欢 ，世界观，个人的道德观还有饮食偏好的冲突深化了爱情，带来了更加浪漫，戏剧化和有趣的效果。。。爱情和婚姻居然真的可以分得那么好，精神和现实居然可以这么平衡，实在是很佩服法国人，既浪漫又现实，让所有人能接受，这何尝不是另一种负责任呢，爱情经历就好，放在心里就好，给你美好就好。生活还要一往无前的走。 说真实的感情上应该给五星的，但是传统教育输入的价值观还是让我只给了四星，这也许就是我的情感与理智的斗争，终究是理智战胜了。

Thousands of years ago,
somebody came up with the notion of impermanence.
Of the beauty and inevitability of change,
I'm pretty sure they had just been dumped.
I had a long time to consider the value of memory.
And the idea that just because something doesn't last forever
doesn't mean its worth is diminished.
Maybe it was just a rationalization.
Easier on the soul than mourning what might have been.
A life unlived.
I honestly don't know.

But I chose to believe in memory.
I chose to believe in her.
I chose to believe that the bond was never broken
and that we carried each other in our hearts.
As a secret singularity.
She made me a writer.
She made me a man.
There would be other loves, even great loves.
But she was right.
Only one remained perfect.

And as a result, it never quite left me alone.

在看到5 to 7这个标题时，我心中想到的是《昼颜》，然而在看过电影之后，我放弃了这个想法，它本有可能成为第二个《廊桥遗梦》。

就像我曾经羡慕过弗朗西斯卡的四天，每一天泛黄的旧照片，象征着一生的挚爱。我嫉妒男主拥有了女主唯一的爱，并让因此成为了一个作家。

女主是个聪明且富有魅力的法国女人。她了解自己拥有怎样的美貌，自信自己的性魅力。她聪明，所以她并不幸运，她有过无数段恋情，却从未拥有真正的爱情。
她并不相信自己此生能再有运气坠入爱河，所以她选择了自己后半生的理想伴侣。她
的丈夫虽然不是能燃烧起她生命激情的爱人，但她愿意与他结下誓约。

她丈夫是个聪明的人。他的心足够宽厚，可以理解名为爱情的游戏。他或许相信的是人生的无常，相信他们之间拥有的另一种爱情。
谁能说相互的信赖与尊敬就不是种爱情了呢？两个人的结合，除了给予对方一生的承诺，还需要什么呢？
她是正确的，在她的丈夫明白了两人间的真正情感后，他来见男主，并说，好好照顾她。

这或许也是个不错的结局，但女主选择的却仍旧是她的丈夫。
他们最般配的夫妻。他们同样聪明，但并不是小聪明，他们具有的是人生的智慧。
在表面的开放性关系、游戏之下，他们拥有的是对生命和生活的共同理解。
或许我们最后选择的不是我们最爱的人，或许我们后半生都会将另一个人留在心中，但在这个无限广阔的人世间，我们只选择了一个人，只和他组建了家庭。

她的手上戴了一枚戒指，只有在无人看的时候才显露出来，随即就被手套掩盖。
那是她心中永远不忘的爱。

爱情，永远是一个人的时候最完美。